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 Moving We have a place. He has signed the lease, but I haven't, though I will once I get down there. I'm most definitely not excited to be moving to that state, but that's ok. The way things are looking, though, I do think it'd make sense if I get a regular job. Not that I don't have faith in Cam's ability, but he has a lot of stress factors. I'd rather him use my car and just drop me off and pick me up if need be so he can work whenever he wants, and I can make sure we have a regular paycheck coming in. I doubt I can use any other transportation... I get being picky with orders, but if you need the money and you're rejecting most orders, well, you're not exactly making much either way. I mean, as much as it sucks, a 12/hr job would be bringing in more weekly. I really wanted to focus on writing for a few months, but I just don't think that's going to financially be a good idea right now. I've looked and I doubt I'll get any job I can use EITHER of my degrees in. It's just not a good location. I don't think that state is, at all, but then I am biased against it, whereas Cam is biased for it. Where I am, there are a handful of both history-related and designed-related jobs, I just haven't applied myself (well, I was at the beginning of the year and was getting nothing, but within the past month or two, a lot have popped up, I've just made a point not to apply since I figured I'd be moving). I don't want to stay here, but I don't want to go there, either.

Traveling I think the worst part about moving down there is I like to travel and I don't think Cam understands that. I stopped for a bit because of my ex, and after I graduated, I figured I'd start back up again, but Cam still hasn't got his passport. Now that I'm finished with my degree (and I've hopefully passed), I have every intention on traveling. I just hope that doesn't cause issues. I know Cam won't be happy about me bringing it up, because I have a few times and he gets defensive pretty fast. Not that he doesn't want to travel, he just isn't in a good spot. Which I can respect, but I'm also a big believer of being in charge of our own destinies and prioritizing. I was broke af when I was his age and still going places. I already told Mallo if she wants someone to go with her to Spain, I got my passport.


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